This peula is her to teach the Chanichim two things one decision making skills.  The second thing they will get from this peula is how it connects to Purim.

It connects because when Esther was asked to go speak to Achasverosh about “law” that was sent out to kill all the Jews of shushan  She had a hard time deciding what to do to put herself first or put her people first and once she made the decision to go and speak to the king everything worked out well.

Goals: In this peulah we will try to talk about Simcha and what it really means to us.

Are there reasons for our happiness or for us thinking that we are happy?

How can we make the pressure for happiness less stressful?

How to start Shuk-Purim???

* First of all, don’t panic!

Goal: To teach about Para Aduma

The goal: To cause the chanichim to understand that Simcha doesn't come from the things we buy, and get. It comes from things that we do for ourselves and others.